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November 26, 2013 Posted by | Indian women | 2 Comments

My Yesterdays Chat…Amazed and Happy…

Some of my So called friends had been telling me that in this house the inlaws are behaving badly with the DIL…One day I asked the DIL if there was any problem , just incase Domestic violence was the case , I would have kept a proper watch… But what she answered me , nothing yaar , mere Sasur to mere per dabate hain jab mein thak jaati hoon…I was amazed….Also I saw her everyday riding her scooter and FIl sitting at the back chatting nicely and she wears whatever she likes….

But ..ya the yesterdays chat… I was waiting in a common area and her MIL was there lookign after the kid…and FIL just introduced me to MIL (in her 50’s end), I just sat there , she was chatting and she figured out I had a intercaste , inter-region marriage… She just said ours is a inter-religion , I got confused , may be its about her DIL , She said no , It is our inter-religion ….I said great ,She said it is an arranged marriage , that too in some rareky know district of India, Yes I was amazed …She said she is a Muslim and Husband a Hindu Brahmin… More Amazed , Then chat continued , she said she was against all the Fanatic Behaviour In both religion and denied marriage….And finally by arranged marriage (Hindu-muslim) they met each other and married , I asked her how was the support while rearing kids as you were working …She said oh , My husband took 3 years off from his job as we decided whoever has higher salary will retain the job…I felt great and proud of such entities in my patriarchial and suffocating culture and where even Educated Young Mind has no clarity in mind ……And do we need religion is also one question, i really question myself…

And what about those so called “friend” ladies who were talking all nonsense about such a sane family…Why they talk sh*t…

October 13, 2013 Posted by | Indian women | 2 Comments

And then the shame washed over me. The Big Gender Shame….

Jailbreak the Patriarchy : A Chrome Plugin …How it shows the real world..


“And boi, did I notice the water. I decided to take the plug-in to this article about the new Bravo reality show set in the Silicon Valley. I was merrily reading along about Mr. Randi Zuckerberg, reading sentences such as “Kim Taylor described his start-up as based on personalized content in the luxury market for men.” And then it hit me. These people were actually women! In the technology industry! My brain said, “fah real?” I had to toggle the Patriarchy to read the “real” version of the article to be sure. And then the shame washed over me. The Big Gender Shame.

I’m a fairly gender-aware / gender-bendy person, but this plug-in had me breaking down prejudices I didn’t even realize I had, because they’d been so easy to quickly push aside. Why did I have to check on it to make sure these people were women? And why was I so surprised? But most importantly, why did I really care what gender these people were? The content in the article was more or less the same either way.”


Sucher says Jailbreak The Patriarchy has around 10,000 users, though she doesn’t know the precise demographics: She knows, though, that it’s been used in several Gender Studies classes (professors have written her grateful letters about it), and that her “community — the liberal queer-type developer — tends to get really excited about it.“”



September 27, 2013 Posted by | Indian women | Leave a comment

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