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Indian Sons treated as Loyal Dog and An FD(Fixed Deposit)


Folks ,
I have been calling my husband Loyal Dog and An FD for last 2 years openly and saw his state like that since past 8 years.

I will narrate one incident :

When My son was born , my Mother In Law immediately said taking him into her arms…My lovely child , now you will be the financial Ful-filler and Loyal Son and fulfill all the expectation of your parents especially to my Son….like my son….
I really felt bad..I immediately said , When I become Old , I want myself to be self-sufficient financially and want to be healthy and wish to contribute towards society and my self till I die.I do not want to put my expectation or make my son live his life for me , let him be free, I will do all good to him and inculcate all good values , where he himself feels for me out of love ,not responsibility and burden in case I need help.He shall be Free… This is between me and my son .

Now you can expect what happened after that, My MIL cried and started shouting , your wife is bad mouthed , she think we are sucking you for money..XYZ…Blah Blah…So I told I didn’t say anything for you..
But still she was quiet afraid and angry…
One more Incident : Whenever there is anything my MIL wants , she will start saying ” Do you know when I gave birth to you, It was very painful, To such a mother will you not do this for me..” ( I thinks all mothers go thru this , I went a lot thru it , But my son never decided to come this world , It is we who decided to bring him in this world for our happiness , we cannot en-cash this way…

The son became a Loyal Dog out of constant conditioning since childhood for the responsibility of a son
. And an FD , as parents didnt save at all – meaning not even a buck , but have huge demands every now and then…Like 2 landlines separate for both husband and wife , 2 Cell phone ofcourse , 3 TV’s between 2 folks , Hometheatre , and whatever we buy for ourselves ..

+ Exact replica of all above for SIL.Thanks to the SIL’s husband who said we are not beggars , we do not want 🙂 , Thank GOD !!

What do you say , I see this at so many places , specially where I am married in Bengalis..I am not a Bengali…

 

 

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September 26, 2012 Posted by | Indian women | 11 Comments

My Neem Journey….and home neem facial


hi Folks,

Writing after a long time….Recently I landed into a useful natural product for my non even skin texture due to hidden white heads and not many black heads , also pimples occasionally landing here and there on my face…Had many open pores too…Was wishing to some how get a plainer face to get a radiant or at least a uniform look….

I was in Delhi recently and saw this Maali(Gardener ) chopping off extra branches from the tree of Neem…Somehow neem has always gave me a good feeling…

So I just picked up these Nimbori (Neem Seed Fruit) , they were ripe…I pressed it and Voila!!! I saw the gel sought of stuff in it..
I was always quiet hateful towards having the neem leaves and boiling etc…what a cumbersome process, None of the modern Neem Face Pack or Wash ever worked for me…So I thought I am not a neem person…
This time I just thought let me rub this colorless gel on my face , it’s readily available and not visible on face…Just applied it for fun ………………………………………….

Next Day , what did I see…My face some whiteheads had dried and looked like some extra skin peeling of similar too after a scratch ..I said ok ..I cleared that skin with my hand and a patch of my face looked clear , I was not convinced , then I just thought let me do this during my morning walks…, after few days I saw everything, almost everything cleared up , no marks too…I was very happy , finally something worked , but somehow all the herbal products claiming neem in it never works , the neem-effect gets lost in the chemical or it is too less concentrated….

After June I see that the seeds season is gone.. I am quiet unhappy on that and again my laziness to try neem leaves has taken over…
But Finally I today managed to make a chutney out of the neem leaves and squeezed the water out = Neem Juice 😉 and applied with some aloe vera from my pot, I hope it works, not sure on the leaves showing that gel effect ….will update once that works…

What I did today for my home neem facial ( I have never done a self facial in life , I m too lazy for such fancies but if this works , will be happy)

1)Took some brand neem face wash and washed with the neem juice.

2)Used some Biotique Peach Face exfoliating mask – ordered out of impulse , it has some neem in it too.but had a layer of neem juice prior to it ..

3)After mask removed  I took some fragrant herbal cream almost a drop and mixed 1 drop yucky neem oil(smells like hell) , mixed biotique one more lotion in it 😉 , aloe vera …massaged it and when it was absorbed , I wetted it with Neem Juice regularly ..No extra cream…

4)After the massage , cleant it and applied Everyuth neem pack which was mixed in Neem juice instead of water.

5) Cleant it , moisturized with Biotique morning nectar + aloevera home gel + little neem juice….

Voila….My facial is finish , anyways I feel smooth on my face , but results will come up tomorrow..
Will update on that..Bye for today…

MY NEXT DAY UPDATE : WOW! I am finding a clearer skin , actually more smoother and less blemish  …IT WORKS , Should continue … Do give it a try with Real Neem instead of Neem Products , Looks like in the Products available in market have  the chemicals that  make the neem useless in their formulations..

September 18, 2012 Posted by | Indian women | 1 Comment

   

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